Have you ever been depressed?  Depression is characterized by being overcome with events and giving up, with feelings of no control and hopelessness.

One of the ways that I used to cope was to try and control things.  Ask any member of my family and they will tell you that I was a control freak.  In my mind, I wasn’t controlling - I was protecting them.  That used to be possible when my children were smaller but as they started to grow up, I realized that I couldn’t control them any more.   I saw my children making choices, that according to my value system, were harmful to them.  And I could do absolutely nothing about it.  That was time of major depression for me, probably the worst I have ever experienced.

We had a seriously handicapped child that died at the age of seven.  As a family, we never dealt with his death properly and nine years later, several of our children were having serious problems.  In an effort to help, we called a grief counselor in to meet with the whole family.

One of the things he had each of us do was to draw a picture of how we saw our family.  I drew my husband and my five children in the back yard, with me watching them.  To my horror, I drew myself with no arms!  Talk about an expression of no control and feeling hopeless!  I get emotional just thinking about it.

In this short little story, can you pick up the number of different ways that unrelieved stress brought on depression?   Do any of you identify?

In the last few blogs, I have talked about how stress can break down our body.  As a Western society, we’ve been conditioned to believe that our body is separate from our mind and that there is nothing we can do to get better.

But Dr. Bruce Lipton, author of “Biology of Belief”  believes differently.  He states: “The problem, however, lies in most people’s inability to grasp the power of thought, since, as a society, we are part of a belief system which creates dependency on external assistance.  You can change your life today or tomorrow, and you can change your physiology in one minute.  But that requires the ability to manipulate yourself - and the unshakeable belief that you CAN manipulate yourself.”

I know that what Dr. Lipton says is true - from my own experience.  It is possible to reduce your pain, improve your health or change your life in any way that you want to.  Of all the courses I took and the different energy modalities I studied in my eight year search, the one that I found to be the most effective and the most powerful was Emotional Freedom Technique or EFT.

It restored my health, and more important, it taught me why I got sick in the first place and how to prevent it from ever happening again.  In the three years that I have worked as a Stress Relief Coach, EFT has been my primary tool because it is so effective on so many different problems. 

If you are having a physical problem and are not satisfied with the results you are getting, I encourage you to look into EFT.  You can find more information on my website: www.SherylStanton.com